The man needs care
The man needs care
Name of man, and getting straight forward wording linked to courageous and resolute resolute strong from ancient times. And with warm and weak to have no chance with good, therefore form man such as steel such as iron such as millennium illusion of the huge rock.
In fact the man needs care too. This man say because man and weariness safe with laugh heartily, take home at road too many hardships because the man is bearing too much heavy burden, because there are beloved wives that are supported by him while having aging parents and young children
Man need care, hint woman have too high expectations own man in fact
The man who takes car is no doubt magnificent, whether ride the man of the bicycle? Have a showdown at the auction constantly and the speech claim the man not expensive is really graceful, is not it very lovely too to write and bring the man whose payment for an article or book written dance for joy of dozens of yuan arduously? In this world, care the woman's man seems more than to care about the man's women, and the man, does not belong to that kind of person who can show loving care for oneself.
The man, does not need flowers sometimes, does not need the medal, does not need low-priced praise, when the a lot of, man need woman any tangible care and love only, the man is a ship of the bitter boat only on the vast sea, for his one loose at the harbour that needs women to show loving care for, give him a emotion.
Someone says: The good woman is a school. But I say: The outstanding man can work as the headmaster of this school. Ha. Say a few words for the man too, there is not young girl, the sun liking regarding man as in life, have wished eagerly one is everywhere " The life that brightly lit ", but they have forgotten, the sun has places to shine, so, they are often disappointed.
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Let wives become the happiest woman
Let wives become the happiest woman
1 kiss her often, while she is careless
2 takes her by hand while crossing the road. Even quarrel.
3 must belong to your own house, even not big.
4 listens to the song that she likes and film which she like seeing together, accompany her to move.
5 lets her lie on your leg, can stroke her hair.
6 she sings for her to listen to while having a bath, let her not feel bored.
7 coax her take nutritious food she love, take.
8 use lover toothbrush, toothbrush with to transfer to stealthily she of you.
9 pinches the shoulder for her when she is very tired, pinches the foot, then scratch her arch of the foot and amuse her.
10 records the appearance that she strolls about and sleeps stealthily. It is not deleted no matter whether she acts shamelessly or threatens.
11 irrational ones embrace and embrace her.
12 thing I that she write will certainly watch diligently, the she to understand heart.
Cook her and like the food for her in 13 weekends, then take a walk.
14 give her a piggyback or stop to embrace her under being wide and all in heavy day.
Distance that will not be over 1 meter far from her when walking in the street 15.
16 must pull and let first her go for her while entering the door of the restaurant or going out of the library.
17 accompanies her to buy vegetables and beat the price down, she cooks you cook the soup.
18 take advantage of half her sleep half wake up room build quilt for her, wake up, see she sleeping soundly first, then kiss her forehead.
19 serves the red syrup of heat for her in her special period, then the calm one watches TV.
20 make a phone call to she morning, listen to lazy voice, servant of she, then ask her want, take what take home for her once in a while.
21 chooses the lovely nickname for her, only you can shout.
22 mobile phones and computerses of backgrounds must be her photo or your group photo.
The pet name on 23 mobile phones must be different from others, when you call her, her sisters see that will envy very much.
24 help her to comb an inmature hairdo at home, then call her the daughter.
25 will certainly take things give she is though your, prove you are always missing her while being on business.
26 she sit, get on the bus, will certainly pull on for her safety belt is own Laszo and then first.
27 will certainly insist on embracing her for a moment when she wanted to unclamp.
28 will never leave her behind alone, even if you must make her safe to make trouble wilfully.
29 you can say if you want, say, let you embrace with her feel blue.
30 meal that just had will certainly pretend to vie for being eaten, it were she that inserted some.
31 you can accompany her climb when she is helpless, see the setting sun.
32 shiver absolutely quarrel, coax, tell her you kind for her after the she.
33 like her hold you sleep, give body a piggyback go to sure as her that turn round then embrace her.
34 takes a picture for her when she did house work, tell her the appearance in apron is very beautiful equally too.
35 if she has fallen ill and sure that looks after her carefully, because she is the most fragile at this time, it is great to endure greatly for her and mend Tang.
There must be her photos in 36 wallets.
37 comes off duty back the sure saying loudly: Wife, I have come back.
Draw quilt one's own this side on purpose 38 at midnight, let her near oneself.
39 listens to her telling me to have a meal on time, drink more water and eat more fruits, say she says another word then kisses her.
Take on her to sleeping in one's arms when 40 thunders, then say: I am afraid.
She wipes 41 groups she eats and wears it in the cream of the mouth and jam.
42 moustache dregs which leave a little pitch and pitch her when kissing her.
43 is in her friend's careful treatment, she, let them know her choice is right.
44 is in your friend's careful treatment, she, do not allow her to think you had treated her coldly.
Accompany her to city or country that she likes once in 45 one's remaining years.
46 until she stare flankly, cook,it tow or lie prone during balcony,will pull you into one's arm her behind.
Sorry that 47 forbids her to say. Tell her this is an imperial edict. But can replace with four words of husband's very kind these.
48 even winter, it is thirsty for her to speak you can leave the bed, help her change ink swiftly too, but come back she must help your warm body.
49 when there is little money in her wallet, you will take and tell her: Help me to buy a pair of socks, keep the change.
50 lets her fall in love with the game that you love, let her fall in love with the team that you love.
51 raises a pet together.
52 writes an article in the place that she can see.
53 takes her to the amusement park, the cinema, the library, the museum, caricature exhibition and mini-bar.
54 has a song about our story. KTV should be sung to go each time.
55 things that will certainly be put down when she should discuss the thing or say unhappy thing with you in the hand are heard conscientiously.
56 if she wants to leave you some day, you will urge to stay, will let her go. Tell her to look for you while receiving the grievance.
57 holds a grateful heart and gets along with her, when you want to lose the temper, you should learn to stand.
Hit an umbrella when 58 rains, step on the mood that the splash does not allow the weather to influence her at a the same pace.
59 go restaurant some dish that she like, offer, order, have food right away a bit really, it is delicious or terrible to call together.
60 will commend her in front of your friend and parents. Whether she is present.
61 when she pays no attention to you, on movement, voice, expression, she what that say act like a child, of her of her to imitate her.
62 send her home, will certainly send her to the gate, tell her to meet her tomorrow.
63 never stares at other women in front of her, see A slice being never captured to by her.
64 always can become, appear first she like candy that wipe out at any time.
65 if you accidents happened to one day, hope she can let a person love her for looking after her for you.
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Dare to jump and leave
Dare to jump and leave
When people are swimming on cold day, probably have the methods of three kinds of adaptation cold water. Some people squat, by pool, tease, to, enable oneself suit, water first, and then enter travel around pond; Some people may stand in the shoal first, and then try to walk to the deep water step by step, it is entered in water or the body squats gradually; There is a kind of person even more, finish the warm-up, jump and leave by the pool.
It is said the safest method is staying outside the pool, sound out in advance; Secondly stay in the pool, deepen gradually; As for the third kind of method, may cause and pull a muscle even initiate heart disease.
But on the contrary, feel a amazing one of cold water is the first kind most, because stay by warmer pool, tease once water and cause cold which oozes the bone once, it is a person leaping to the pool, because will deal with the question of swimming at the moment at once, can forget the cold all over the body instead.
Like swimming, when people will enter the strange environment in privation; Some people survey carefully first, in order to do perfectly sound preparation; But a lot of people know that beset with difficulties, and delay the journey repeatedly, even cancel the original plan; There are people, a kick steps foot on that environment, but still leave a lot of ways of escape, look at the situation far from good first, leave and return to; Have people even more certainly, heart deposit cut off all means of retreat think, make up one's mind, devote whole-heartedly, because is anxious to deal with the very heavy one at the moment dangerously, can forget a lot of agony instead.
In life, how should we do? If is a young and vigorous person, there is no harm in doing " jump and leave " Person. Though may be a bit dangerous, you will find, it is by the pool that act as others still hesitate, or half-length to stand in pool calling cold, dare one people to leap to pool then, already come and go freely, one that is surrounding area this cold, forget thoroughly.
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During the process
Philosophic theory 072 in life
During the process of pursuing the goal of a certain life, people will often be dispersed energy by those unimportant minor details and meaningless miscellaneous affair, forget one's own original intention, even go to the branch road. So remind oneself constantly " where has the marmot gone? "
It don't be busy that should not be busy
The end health of Japanese writer's Sichuan has become since obtaining the Nobel Prize, the ones that received great reputation are hard, often official side, among the people, including television advertising businessman,etc., draw, do these make those. The scholar is unavoidable and innocent, is not good at treating with courtesy, the kind one of heart is soft, will not plead; It is too serious to do things, it is perfunctory not to understand; Then fell into the busy secularity tight encirclement, did not I wonder how to free, committed suicide at last, end this life. It is reported, before the end of Sichuan is approaching one's end, once handed in in order to raise Pen Association's funds and mental and physical efforts exhaustedly. The mood is very low, may impel one of his world-weary reasons to commit suicide, it is not an absurd word that is examined that this is acted as.
No doubt, for a writer, can get the Nobel Prize, this well already can be regarded as and dig deeply enough. But if he involve in, make he irritated tired trival matters that can't bear, and can still quiet degrees of years old, by enriching sparkling and crystal-clear intelligence of his eastern type, may have creation of the philosophic theory that hands down to posterity in generation even more.
Lakeside author shuttleless loom Luo of random notes, for write one book, leave forest spend recluse's life for two years. It is the food to plant beans and maize by oneself, deprive his trival matters trifles of time after getting rid of all, with single-hearted devotion, go to experience the sympathetic response that scenery on the lake and his soul produce among forest. Find a lot of reasons from it, and has finished this masterpiece.
Often the life that someone sighs is in a rush, the heaviness of burden.
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staring at the wide road
Two hands of mother insert the pocket, is staring at the wide road of front seeming lost in thought, she think oneself in which crossing stop on earth, in which crossing turn. Just at this moment, a bright and polished and polished coin rolled under mother's foot suddenly. That coin has drawn a circle enclosing her first, then has shaken again, the meaning not stopped that it seems, then roll forward slowly.
"Is it a coin? " Mother has remembered the scene while giving birth to a child by oneself, then she asserts, this coin before one's eyes must be different and alike. And the coin has been stopped swiftly at this moment, walk around hitting in the place not far from mother quickly, going with it like greeting mother.
"I want to see it can take me to somewhere on earth. " Mother has understood the intention of the coin, hurry the step of taking, and the coin stands up rollingly more rapidly. It rolls, rolls, rolls from a million wineshops to the general merchandise of palace, roll from gold treasure street to the silver treasure street; It rolls, rolls, cross the underpass first, then turn over the overpass again. One step of mother follows it ceaselessly, until being out of breath because of running. Suddenly, " " , coin " whiz " unexpectedly The ground disappears as soon as the ground rolled into the sewer.
"How could be so! " Mother wipes the beads of sweet on the forehead, the disappointment of a face emerges. She stick up, get up buttocks look at on sewer, make passerby watch curiously for a moment unreconciled. The coin has probably fallen into into mud, except the rubbish stinking to high heaven, mother did not see even a shade.
"It is not any amazing thing, waste I run on such a far way. " Mother decides to give up simply, climb up from the ground supporting straining. And at that time when she lifted the head, an unattractive advertisement attracted her attention at the moment.
Writing four words crookedly on a piece of wrinkled blank sheet of paper: This shop puts out to lease.
Can be regarded as the leadership in the unseen world, in this way, mother becomes the new master of this clothes shop soon. Shop's rental is not expensive, 3000 yuan every month. The most important thing is, because there are several antique modern buildings near the shop, have attracted a lot of foreign visitors to come because of respect for the fame. Then the clever mother locks the management content of the clothes shop in traditional clothes and dress of China naturally. The cheongsam of dresses of the Tang Dynasty, brocade are embroidered and wide cotton shoes are originally foreigners' favorite, combine with English fluently of oneself, no matter solicit guests or bargain, mothers are all nothing difficult. Rely on so some day, favourable terrain, people and little business of shop flourishing becoming more prosperous every day naturally.
Man stock up, deal in alone, it is sad to have a trial test alone, reap the happiness alone too. As all kinds of affairs of the store get on the right track gradually, deduct the capital of rental and goods the shop, will come down arduously in one month, the net profit of the small shop can be in order to reach 6000 yuan. Soon, mother draws support from the cool of the roadside white poplar again, the square table of several padauks is put outside the shop creatively, steep the first-class Chinese well-known tea of several pots, Dongting Lake Bi Luochun(a green tea), Tie Guanyin in Anxi again, freeze very dark dragon, the West Lake Longjing tea Foreigners are attracted fragrantly by these wisps of tea in the big city, then have a rest under the shade for a moment, have a trial test in these a lot of unique the east and drink very much slowly. In this way, every month such as mother not only many incomes of more than 1,000 yuan, but also spuring the business of the clothes shop virtually.
Since the profit doing business and obtaining, according to common people's thinking, will probably put all of these profits into business again, and this kind of income reinvested is sure to be higher than the ordinary investment way. However, do business and always unavoidably encounter the risk, if meet the unpredictable accidents such as the turn of the market, fault of managing etc. in managing, meet poor and underdeveloped even possibly because danger that assets do not pay a debt in kind and go bankrupt. Mother divides relatively generous income of every month for four parts:
the grass
I seem to be innate to the hobby of the graphics art. It's a great pity that young and ignorant that year, combine with " the Culture Revolution " Confusion,getting with great more concentration really since I practise granddad by time of picture,add up for time for two year.
But by my granddad's body year in year out, one that see and hear, it makes me understand more or less that draw a picture and award the rudimentary knowledge of the picture that art consciously or unconsciously is exerted an uplifting influence on.
After the granddad passes away, I have no chance to acknowledge sb. as one's master and study and paint formally all the time. But painting is an indispensable part in my life. Though rely mainly on copying in most of the time, and the content is miscellaneous and unstandard. But to this person who teaches oneself of mine, the achievement of the works is still less important, it is the course of drawing a picture to let me carry the main reason among them away, it is enjoyed that that is one, empty worries and happy course.
Remember now, it is two kinds that I involve roughly returning in the painting manor: First landscape painting, second personage's sketch. It looks that they are two kinds of irrelevant painting systems, but has played the good function of complementing each other, writing with a free pen on me.
It is the painting of mountains and rivers at first. Traditional Chinese mountains and rivers painting is to record the appearances of every historical eras of Chinese nation in their unique artistic languages, the aesthetic consciousness of reflecting and agglutinate Chinese nation and traditional thought. It is based on the forest of art of the world eastern artistic characteristics, converges into the wealth of the humane treasure-house of the whole world. If you want to grasp the marrow of Chinese mountains and rivers painting, the starting point must lie in copying the old painting, even if is a painting master like my granddad, practise the picture initially, can not copy the works of the ancient outstanding painter who makes a thousand.
It seems to be simple to copy the mountains and rivers, not in fact like this. The course copied is a course from outward appearance to inner essence, from the superficial to the deep. The most basic thing of the landscape painting is pen and black skill that has. Divide lightly, heavily, thickly, thinly, urgently, slowly with the pen; Use and divide blackly deeply, lightly, densely, lightly, do, wet, could draw the contrast of the distance and negative and positive in this way. For example draw the withered tree, the focal point must be " withered " Have. And for example draw the mountain. Draw the summer mountain, the grass and trees grow prosperity, should be dense and deep, demonstrate dark green taste everywhere; Draw the autumn mountain, the maple leaf is dredged desolately, naturally fresh and cool, demonstrate the sophisticated and net appearance in autumn; Such as drawing the scene in winter, the grass and trees wither, the living beings stop, draw the nature and come like the dreamland sleeping like sleeping. All these may be the marrow of the landscape painting, i.e. " shape " With " spirit " Integration.
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Have not already reached the really gentle
Have not already reached the really gentle realm in the heart, can not write out such a poem.
Leisurely and comfortable poem of Bai Juyi, among orthodox literature history always until " Qin Zhong chant " " office of Xinle " is set against ", say that advocates temperament and interest of the landlord class, demonstrate passivism lags behind a cloud cloud in the thought. I must admit most achievements of the leisurely and comfortable poem are not high, after the similar subject matter is expressed repeatedly, it can only be the dullness to bring. I always thought too it was happy to lead a simple virtuous life that the scholars were fond of playing up excessively contentment brings happiness, make it become the vulgar popular symbol in poems unavoidably. But I still each time in the works of the he " Vulgar " Life moves, in other words, making me very happy vulgarly of him.
" eat the bamboo shoot ":
This state is the bamboo township, the full mountain valley of the bamboo shoots in spring. Rolls over and full of embracing, embrace morning market Yu the mountain. Thing with more for being lowpriced, pairs of money easy one. The ones that put cook a meal in the rice steamer, well done at the same time with the meal. Purple sheaths of bamboo shoots split open silk, plain skin thumb new jade. It then add every day meal,through when think by meat. It is a Lip river guest in Beijing to be long, this flavor is often insufficient. And food hesitate, the south wind blows and makes bamboos.
I paid attention to to a poem " Read and experience for the first time " ,That show you until by careful think, one poem move strength of you straightforward most. "it split open sheaths of bamboo shootses purple so silk,it is plain for skin thumb jades new " Fine but unusual metaphor, read here feel mediocre ear still. The last sentence but lets me can't help smiling.
Then remember " eating the bamboo shoot and presenting it in seats for the first time " of Li Shangying: "The fragrant bud of tender sheaths of bamboo shoots produces the forest for the first time, it is heavy like gold that Yu Ling determines the price. There all should be countless in sea of land emperors, bear a feeling of cutting reaching the clouds. " I love Li Shangying not to know worldly-wise and repeatedly injured child just like loving one, compared with Bai Juyi, he lives too painfully really.
Another time I can't help, laugh, see gentle centralized yuan and " play circumstances Chen " for will it be April 26 five year, please transfer to Beijing promise office decide department, the reason is that " the preface lookses of money, there is slightly many official's salary " Bai Juyi ,Can support mother. New or old Tang of this books all record while spreading, may cite the filial piety one. In himself, but is speaking the honest words in fact. Later people may understand this while being very much difficult. Han Yu " god son's poem " is rebuked angrily by a lot of Neo-Confucianism families, in fact he is only speaking the honest words.
Hong Mai had recorded to him and read some odds and ends collected in vain to experience in " held the room random notes ", among them talk about the white poem and like the discipline annually. Bai Juyi often writes one's own person's age into the poem conveniently, even does not avoid the trivial bits. Read his poem, can clearly sketch the contours of his chronological table. How much he still lets oneself the official's salary of government post each time, write too.
Feel interesting to step bigly, but he has not said why feel interesting. I think, for Bai Juyi, the poem is similar to diary. He write something spread later age, but a habitual one come on life that record with it sedulously often. The poem is to him " Of daily expenses unwittingly " . This must cause the mediocrity of some poem appearances - -Have seen a diary with exquisite page? Page page exquisite diary, must used for issue walk goods, give things that oneself think. The language of the poem undoubtedly needed tempering, but I thought " two sentences were won in three years, double-current a song tears " " chant and fit a word, rotating must count stems to give up " Rather not grand enough, and is far away from poems as " heartfelt wishes " Essential danger.
After the Song Dynasty, because of authoritative establishment of model, you can see which kind of 's style access is poem, " the smell presses on towards Lao Du " " Tang in liking " " yes the graceful bearing of late Tang " Each poem is frozen in a frame at this point, shake off and does not open. After passing completely in classical era, write old body people of poem today, in any case unable to return to those kind of simple and honest " poem life " even more Realm.
So I thought " The white custom that yuan are light " Laugh at,for poem, is the light for disease,the vulgar but otherwise. Bai Juyi their " Vulgar" ,Make people cordial. Just Bai Juyi's seven-syllable, has seen and is really yawned, it is the dense appearance of this kind of types that is enabled rightly - -Bai Juyi writes and like the jingle them.
Has gone through the official for many years, Bai Juyi has divided life into two parts gradually: Imperial court, one's own. He very clearly gets the poem too: Give in this world, it is one's own to give. He makes own well-behaved thing, have love of offering as a gift to common people, always ashamed one's own vegetarian meals, "what charitable and pious deeds am I today, once no thing farming and sericulture. 300 stones of official's emolument, years old Yan has surplus grain " ,The similar words have appeared in the collection of poems repeatedly, you have no evidence to suspect his sincerity; He plan, attack, get on, do form of making vigorous efforts to turn the tide again either, military yuans of weighing apparatus a matter, already let him pay the light cost. He is not a timid and weak-willed person, just see the value that can not be sacrificed. Can be compared to the stone that is put into the a pool of stagnant water, swing a ripples at most. " five color lines of all one's life, wish to mend Shun's clothes " It is proffering a love or affection which is not reciprocated of the scholar at all times, even unruly like Li Bai, depressed like Du Fu, see and does not break the true status in front of ferocious politics of poet's illusion all the time either. " reach and hold concurrently and help the world, poor and righteous alone in a community where the general moral tone is low " ,The game entering the WTO and was borned, scholar one hundred played and did not mind, but it can difficult to reach Bai Juyi's realm of Pure Brightness.
